Dear Pamela, How old are you?
--Jane

Dear Jane,

Many people wonder this, but are afraid to ask. I am 50, soon 51. Usually the next question is "What is the secret to your youthful appearance?" Besides lucking out in the gene pool, I offer these hints at staying and looking young:
--follow your passion as much as possible;
--find a hobby that delights you and allow yourself time to enjoy it and money to spend on it (within limits);
--have frequent guiltless sex, especially with yourself;
--use Apple Cider Vinegar (hair rinse, on face, for sunburns, etc.);
--if you decide to use make-up, use natural products;
--be honest with yourself;
--ignore the societal messages that dictate what a person your age should be doing or should have accomplished;
--keep music in your life; and, finally,
--play with dolls, or your equivalent.

Sincerely, Pamela

(NOTE: This question was asked shortly before March 8, 2000.)

Pamela Walker